“Human relationships, and the effects of relationships on relationships, are the building blocks of healthy development” (Shonkoff & Phillips, 2000, p. 4).

 

I am lucky to have many wonderful people in my life who support me and I dedicate this post to them.

My children: This is very interested because everyone I know thinks their children are just amazing and the greatest children in the world. Therefore, you might think this is very subjective, but I will assure you that these children are DELIGHTFUL. Bass is smart, and his jokes are getting funnier by the day.  He is caring and loves his family and friends. We are both very adventurous people, so we always have fun finding and going to new and exciting places. He loves traditions and actively reminds me togetherness is important for him, and I treasure him dearly.  As for my daughter, we just have fun together. She is such a girl; she brings out the best in me and makes me happy. She is loving, caring, hugging and reminds me that love is really all there is. We dance. We laugh, and it breaks my heart when she is sad.  I feel privileged to have them in my life. 

My extended Family: I grew up in a very large family and truly a school of life. I learned many rules and roles. I also learned to think for myself and decide on my best interest rather than what I was told. I learned that my needs were as important as the family’s need. I love my family dearly and truly believe that they have made me the strong and caring person I have become. I am always thankful that there constantly is someone ready to listen and give me honest feedback.

My friends: I have truly supportive friends who are there for me when I need them. They remind me of the importance of healthy support. They watch my children when I need them to, they stay in touch with me and above all they are ready when I need someone to talk to. We laugh. We cry and we support each other, and it feels wonderful.

My coworkers: I work with a wonderful group of women who truly are making a difference in women’s lives. My coworkers make me realized that there are causes bigger than ourselves, and we have to work together to make children and their families’ lives better. We have to speak and advocate for those who do not have voices. They teach me about selflessness, and it is very rewarding to be part of something greater than you.